Camille Paglia

Playboy Interview

Camille Paglia, May 1995

 by David Sheff

It is almost easier to get through to the president than to Camille Paglia. The litany of instructions on her answering machine is intentionally intimidating. A male voice begins, “Due to her pressing obligations as a teacher and scholar, Professor Paglia cannot personally return calls.” The instructions continue, “American and Canadian media with official requests should contact her publisher; international media must contact her agent. Invitations to speak and all other business should be put in writing and sent to Professor Paglia. Do not send faxes. Professor Paglia does not accept them. All packages are opened and inspected by the staff. Unsolicited materials without return postage will be automatically discarded. Urgent messages may be left on this tape to be reviewed by the staff. If you do not receive a response, Professor Paglia is not interested in your proposal.”

A few years ago, no one would have cared enough to call. Now, however, the machine answers only one of the eight lines in Paglia’s empire. And the phones ring nonstop. She may be the most famous social philosopher in the country.

Though Paglia’s image as an antifeminist feminist, antigay lesbian and antiliberal liberal seems carefully cultivated, it is nonetheless remarkable. Called alternately “the bravest and most original critic of our day” and an “academic rottweiler,” Paglia articulates a philosophy that encompasses paganism, Madonna, pornography, Jean-Jacques Rousseau and Freud.

A humanities professor at the University of the Arts in Philadelphia, Paglia has been America’s most notorious enfant terrible of academe since the publication of her seminal work, “Sexual Personae: Art and Decadence from Nefertiti to Emily Dickinson.” “The Washington Post” called the book “at once outrageous and compelling, fanatical and brilliant.” Released in 1990, it was nominated for a National Book Critics Circle Award for its incendiary theories about Western culture from ancient Egypt to Elvis Presley. In the follow-up tome, “Sex, Art and American Culture,” and her current bestseller, “Vamps & Tramps,” Paglia skewers everything politically correct and then some. Though her views about issues as diverse as the origins of homosexuality, the danger of fraternity parties and the implications of having a penis are always debatable, they are well argued and provocative.

Now that she’s famous, Paglia enjoys wielding her power. The instructions that precede a meeting with her, given by her publisher, are exact: the time, the place (a steakhouse in Philadelphia), a specific table (overlooking the street), the demand that a photographer be on the scene. Interviewers who have braved these conditions in the past have published warnings: Bring lots of tapes and batteries.

The steakhouse has a menu of enormous filets mignons and fishbowl-size martinis. Paglia waltzes in, dressed in black, looking more like an artist than a professor, and offers a quick handshake. The warnings about the speed and volume of her speech are not exaggerated. But she orders the least macho thing on the menu: a Caesar salad.

The loathing that Paglia engenders is normally reserved for dictators and despots. Michiko Kakutani, in the “New York Times” review of “Vamps & Tramps,” trashed Paglia as “bellicose, swaggering and vain.” A “Los Angeles Times” critic wrote, “She epitomizes the level of success our culture affords to women who sell out.” Jim Mullen of “Entertainment Weekly” joked, “With feminists like this, who needs men?”

A sampler of Pagliaisms offers something to offend everyone:

“Anita Hill was not harassed.”

“Pornography is sexual reality.”

Certain forms of rape “are what used to be called unbridled love.”

“Lesbianism is increasing since anxious, unmasculine men have little to offer.”

“Prostitutes like their work.”

“Bisexuality should be the universal norm.”

“Legalize all drugs.”

Stripping is “a sacred dance of pagan origins” and the money men stuff into G-strings is a “ritual offering.”

“The more a woman takes off her clothes, the more power she has” and feminists hate strippers because “modern professional women cannot stand the thought that their hard-won achievements can be outweighed in an instant by a young hussy flashing a little tits and ass.”

She wants to lower the age of consent for sex to 14, and she supports the North American Man-Boy Love Association, an organization that advocates gay sex with young boys. She says that AIDS is nature’s revenge for promiscuity.

Paglia was born in 1947 in Endicott, New York. She has compared her suburban upbringing to that of two other controversial women, Madonna and Sandra Bernhard. “Half of us is a nice suburban girl,” she says. “The other half is a raving pornographic maniac.”

Her father taught Romance languages at Le Moyne College, and her mother worked in a bank. Considering their conservative Italian roots, they were remarkably tolerant of their first daughter’s early eccentricities. One Halloween she dressed as Alice in Wonderland, but every other year she went out in dragat eight, she was Napoléon, a typical and apt choice.

Paglia was a senior in high school when Kennedy was shot and the Beatles arrived in the U.S., and she was enormously influenced by the political and social upheaval of the Sixties and early Seventies. She attended Yale, earning a Ph.D. in English in 1974, then went on to teach at Bennington College in Vermont.

She was asked to resign from Bennington after she kicked one student and got into a fistfight with another. A lawyer helped her stay on for two more years. She left to begin a successful teaching career at the Philadelphia College of Performing Arts, which is now the University of the Arts, where she remains.

Although she experimented in relationships with both sexes, she says she has always gotten along better with women and spent many years looking for a female lovereven answering personal ads. She met Alison Maddex, an artist and teacher, in 1993. They live together in a Philadelphia suburb.

The manuscript for “Sexual Personae” was completed in 1981 and was rejected by seven publishers before it was accepted nine years later. It launched a media storm that continues unabatedincluding coverage in the nation’s largest gay magazine, “The Advocate” (the cover story on her was headlined “Attack of the 50-Foot Lesbian”), and in Playboy, where she let loose with a scathing attack on feminist antiporn activists Andrea Dworkin and Catharine MacKinnon.

When Playboy decided to approach her for the “Interview,” we asked Contributing Editor David Sheff to tackle the assignment. Sheff is no stranger to gender issueshis subjects have included Betty Friedan, the founder of modern feminism, and Robert Wright, the writer who claims male lust is genetic. Here is Sheff’s report:

“When I mentioned to friends that I was heading to Philadelphia to meet Camille Paglia, I realized the degree of animosity she provokes. She was contemptuously dismissed, often by people who had never read her work. Others seemed torn by her. Some praised her as ‘fresh and profound,’ but even more dismissed her as ‘outrageous and repugnant.’

“I can hardly be surprised that she espouses opinions even her own mother finds reprehensible. When I asked about her mother, she told me, ‘Instead of me being born to her, [my mother would have preferred if] Katie Couric had been.’

“By coincidence, I saw Couric the next day on the set of the ‘Today’ show in New York. When I reported Paglia’s comment, Couric had this to say: ‘I can safely tell you that my mother does not wish Camille Paglia were her daughter.’

“Despite such opinions, in person and in context instead of in sound bites, Paglia is often reasonable, witty and likable (even endearing, such as when she insisted that I order green vegetables with my steak). She is also correct in at least one of her assessmentsthat she, like such loudmouths as Rush Limbaugh, Howard Stern and Ross Perot, helps to encourage discourse and free speech in a country that needs all it can get.”

 

Playboy: Are you a feminist?

Paglia: I’m absolutely a feminist. The reason other feminists don’t like me is that I criticize the movement, explaining that it needs a correction. Feminism has betrayed women, alienated men and women, replaced dialogue with political correctness. PC feminism has boxed women in. The idea that feminismthat liberation from domestic prisonis going to bring happiness is just wrong. Women have advanced a great deal, but they are no happier. The happiest women I know are not those who are balancing their careers and families, like a lot of my friends are. The happiest people I know are the womenlike my cousinswho have a high school education, got married immediately after graduating and never went to college. They are very religious and they never question their Catholicism. They do not regard the house as a prison.

Playboy: But what about the women who stay home and are still suffering?

Paglia: The problem is the alternative handed to them by feminism. I look at my friends who are on the fast track. They are desperate, frenzied and frazzled, the most unhappy women who have ever existed. They work nights and weekends and have no lives. Some of them have children who are raised by nannies.

Playboy: What’s your point? Do you want women to go back to the home?

Paglia: The entire feminist culture says that the most important woman is the woman with an attaché case. I want to empower the woman who wants to say, “I’m tired of this and I want to go home.” The far right is correct when it says the price of women’s liberation is being paid by the children.

Playboy: Are you siding with the far right?

Paglia: No. What I’m doing is pointing out the bind the women’s movement has created not only for women but for the culture as well. Children are abandoned. There is no doubt that it’s better for kids to have contact with mothers for those early years. When I go to work in the morning. I see black women and Hispanic women pushing strollers filled with rich, white babies. These women provide the best human contact that those kids have. So we have gone back to the mammy. It’s Gone With the Wind again.

Playboy: What’s a better solution?

Paglia: Women should be free to choose. For the ones who decide to work, child care should be provided. The problem is that only large corporations can afford to have on-site day care. Mothers can visit their children during coffee breaks and lunch, which is wonderful. Other women are in difficult positions, and the feminist movement offers nothing except scorn if they choose their children’s well-being. Of course, the other thing the women’s movement has done is caused a destructive division between the sexes. Men are in a terrible position.

Playboy: Do you support the men’s movement?

Paglia: I think it’s absolutely necessary. It’s no coincidence that Tim Allen’s book is vying with the Pope’s for the top of the best-seller lists. He is one of the voices of men who are looking to define masculinity in this age. Robert Bly does this, too. We have allowed the sexual debate to be defined by women, and that’s not right. Men must speak, and speak in their own voices, not voices coerced by feminist moralists. Warren Farrell, in The Myth of Male Power, points out how much propaganda has infiltrated the culture. For example, he says that the assertion that women earn so much less than men is bullshit. The reason women earn less than men is that women don’t want the dirty jobs. They aren’t picking up the garbage, taking the janitorial jobs and so on. They aren’t taking the sales commission jobs that require you to work all night and on weekends. Most women like clean, safe offices, which is why they are still secretaries. They don’t want to get too dirty. Also, women want offices to be nice, happy places. What bullshit.

The women’s movement is rooted in the belief that we don’t even need men. All it will take is one natural disaster to prove how wrong that is. Then, the only thing holding this culture together will be masculine men of the working class. The cultural elitewomen and menwill be pleading for the plumbers and the construction workers. We are such a parasitic class.

I began to realize this in the Seventies when I thought women could do it on their own. But then something would go wrong with my car and I’d have to go to the men. Men would stop, men would lift up the hood, more men would come with a truck and take the car to a place where there were other men who would call other men who would arrive with parts. I saw how feminism was completely removed from this reality.

I also learned something from the men at the garage. At Bennington, I would go to a faculty meeting and be aware that everyone hated me. The men were appalled by a strong, loud woman. But I went to this auto shop and the men there thought I was cute. “Oh, there’s that Professor Paglia from the college.” The real men, men who work on cars, find me cute. They are not frightened by me, no matter how loud I am. But the men at the college were terrified because they are eunuchs, and I threatened every goddamned one of them.

Playboy: Do you think that feminism is antisexual?

Paglia: The problem with America is that there’s too little sex, not too much. The more our instincts are repressed, the more we need sex, pornography and all that. The problem is that feminists have taken over with their attempts to inhibit sex. We have a serious testosterone problem in this country.

Playboy: Caused by what?

Paglia: It’s a mess out there. Men are suspicious of women’s intentions. Feminism has crippled them. They don’t know when to make a pass. If they do make a pass, they don’t know if they’re going to end up in court.

Playboy: Is that why you’ve been so critical about the growing number of sexual harassment cases?

Paglia: Yes, though I believe in moderate sexual harassment guidelines. But you can’t have the Stalinist situation we have in America right now, where any neurotic woman can make any stupid charge and destroy a man’s reputation. If there is evidence of false accusation, the accuser should be expelled. Similarly, a woman who falsely accuses a man of rape should be sent to jail.

My definition of sexual harassment is specific. It is only sexual harassmentby a man or a womanif it is quid pro quo. That is, if someone says, “You must do this or I’m going to do that”for instance, fire you. And whereas touching is sexual harassment, speech is not. I am militant on this. Words must remain free. The solution to speech is that women must signal the level of their tolerancewomen are all different. Some are very bawdy.

Playboy: What about women who are easily offended and too scared or intimidated to speak up?

Paglia: Too bad. You must develop the verbal tools to counter offensive language. That’s life. Feminism has created a privileged, white middle class of girls who claim they’re victims because they want to preserve their bourgeois decorum and passivity.

Playboy: You’re expecting girls to stand up for themselves in a culture that discourages them from doing just that?

Paglia: That’s right. We must examine the degree to which we coddle middle-class girls. There is something sick about it. The girls I see on campuses are often innocuous, with completely homogenized personalities, miserable, anorexic and bulimic. The feminist movement teaches them that it’s men’s fault, but it isn’t. These girls go out into the world as heiresses of all the affluence in the universe. They are the most pampered and most affluent girls on the globe. So stop complaining about men. You’re getting all the rewards that come with the nice-girl persona you’ve chosen. When you get into trouble and you’re batting your eyes and someone is offending you and you are too nice to deal with it, that’s a choice. Assess your persona. Realize the degree to which your niceness may invoke people to say lewd and pornographic things to yousometimes to violate your niceness. The more you blush, the more people want to do it. Understand your part of it and learn to parry. Sex talk is a game. The girls in the Sixties loved it. If you don’t want some professor to call you honey, tell him.

Playboy: Let us consider Anita Hill. Did Jane Mayer and Jill Abramson’s revelations about the Clarence Thomas confirmation hearings in their book Strange Justice influence your feelings about that case?

Paglia: That pathetic book? The idea that they found great new evidence of Thomas’ guilt is nonsense. Here is the major revelation: There were centerfolds in his kitchen. What a crime against humanity! I laughed out loud. He had five years of Playboy. And here’s the kicker: They were arranged chronologically. OK? My response is this: Any man with five years of Playboy in his kitchen should be placed on the Supreme Court immediately!

The fact is that Clarence Thomas doesn’t have the judicial excellence to be a Supreme Court justice. But that’s not the issue. I maintain that Thomas flirted with Anita Hill, who batted her eyes at him and was a little embarrassed and didn’t know what to do. Come on, he was looking for a wife. But how uncomfortable was she? She followed him from job to job. Feminists get around that by saying, “Well, she was ambitious.” I say, “Apparently her ambition was greater than any sexual harassment that occurred.” She chose her ambition, Anita Hill is just a yuppie. I’m the only leading feminist who went against her, and history will bear me out.

Playboy: You once said that you look through the eyes of a rapist. What did you mean?

Paglia: I have lesbian impulses, so I understand how a man looks at a woman.

Playboy: Why did you say a rapist rather than a man?

Paglia: Men do look at women as rapists. When I was growing up, it wasn’t possible for me to do anything about my attraction to women. Lesbianism didn’t exist in that time, as far as I knew. If I were young today, when everyone is experimentingbisexuality is in with a lot of young womenit would have been different. But I always felt frustrated and excluded, looking in from a distance. As a woman, I couldn’t rapeit’s not possiblebut if I had been a man with similar feelings, who knows? I developed a stalking thing.

Playboy: When does that kind of lust become rape?

Paglia: There may have been cases when I would have gone over the line. I understand when men complain about women giving mixed messages, because women have given me a lot of mixed messages. I understand the rage that this can cause.

Playboy: Give us an example.

Paglia: A woman I’m talking with at some event says, “Let’s leave here and go to this bar,” which is a lesbian bar. We go to the bar and we’re talking and then she says, “Let’s go have coffee,” and we go to this coffee shop and end up, at three in the morning, half a block from her apartment. Finally, she says, “All right, well, goodnight.” She’s ready to go home alone and I look at her, like, “What do you mean? Aren’t we going to go back to your apartment?” “No.” “What?” And she says, “Do you think I was leading you on?” Un-fucking-believable. I can’t tell you the rage. I am, at that point, looking at her and…. All I can say is, if I had been an 18-year-old street kid instead of a 45-year-old woman, I would have stabbed her. I was completely humiliated and furious. If I had been a guy with a hard-on, I would have hit her.

Playboy: Would you have been justified in hitting her?

Paglia: That’s not the point. The point is that I would have. Women must be aware of the signals they send out, aware that, at three in the morning, with that flirting, they have created expectations. If they fail to fulfill those expectations, they can be in trouble. They could be out with a Ted Bundy or a Jeffrey Dahmer. A woman cannot go on a date, have a bunch of drinks and go back to some guy’s dorm room or apartment and then, when he jumps on her, cry date rape. Most people aren’t sure what’s going to happen on a first date. Given that ambiguity, every woman must be totally aware at every moment that she is responsible for every choice she makes.

Playboy: You also blame women who are abused for their complicity in abusive relationships. You said that the victims are “addicted to the apology.” But aren’t many women just terrified of leaving their violent boyfriends or husbands?

Paglia: In many cases, there is a weird psychological thing going on. It’s almost masochistic. You can hear it in the tapes of Nicole Simpson when she called the police on O.J. It’s not just that she didn’t press charges, even though she had ample evidence. It was a game. Everyone hears that tape and says, “How awful, that poor woman.” I don’t. I say, “Listen to Nicole’s voice.” You do not hear fear. You hear a woman who is playing a game. She is almost bemused. “Here he is again.”

Playboy: It was a dangerous game.

Paglia: It was, but she was a party in it. Of course she didn’t deserve to die. But that’s not the point. The point is, as it relates to other women, protect yourselves. See trouble coming.

Playboy: Have you studied the kind of obsession that would explain Simpson’s behavior?

Paglia: Men suffer from sexual anxiety their whole lives. The domination by women is a crushing burden. I understand the stalker. I understand how John Hinckley became obsessed with Jodie Foster. It was similar to the way I was toward beautiful women. I saw Catherine Deneuve in a department store and followed her and spied on her.

Playboy: You have stalked Catherine Deneuve?

Paglia: I followed her into the glove department at Saks. I would kill anyone who chased me for an autograph while I was shopping at Saks.

Playboy: Is there a certain personality type that becomes obsessed?

Paglia: I collected 599 pictures of Elizabeth Taylorsome people find that obsessive. I collected 599. Not 600, but 599. I feel that genius and obsession may be the same thing. It is rare when a woman is driven by obsession. Similarly, it is rare when a woman is a genius. That’s why I said one of my most notorious sentences, that there is no woman Mozart because there is no woman Jack the Ripper. Men are more prone to obsession because they are fleeing domination by women. They flee to a chess game or to a computer or to fixing a car, or whatever, to attempt to complete their identities, because they always feel incomplete.

Playboy: Why do cars or computers complete our identities?

Paglia: Because they are separate from the emotion that is fixated on women. Very masculine men are not at home in the world of emotion, which requires judgments that are not cause and effect. Heterosexuals have a kind of tunnel vision, which is a virtue, in my opinion. It allows them to make the great breakthroughs in music or science. The feminist line is that there are no women Mozarts because we have been trained to believe that we can’t succeed in that field or we were never given the opportunity to excel because we were being groomed to be wives. I don’t think that anymore. It’s hormones.

Playboy: You have said that you disagree with Germaine Greer’s contrary opinionthat the greatest artists are not women because “you cannot get great art from mutilated egos.”

Paglia: The fact is, you get great art only from mutilated egos. Only mutilated egos are obsessive enough. When I entered graduate school in 1968, I thought women were going to have all these enormous achievements, that they would redo everything. Then I saw every one of my female friendsthese great minds who were going to transform the worldget married, move because their husbands moved and have babies. I screamed at them: What are you doing? Finish your great book! But they all read me the riot act. They said, “Camille, we are not you.” They said, “We want life. We want love. We want happiness. We are not happylike you arejust living off ideas.” I am weird. I am more like Dahmer was or Hinckley. I’m like one of those obsessives. Or Dante.

Playboy: Let’s discuss other feminists. What is your relationship with Betty Friedan, the founder of modern American feminism?

Paglia: I have always loved herI love that style. The National Organization for Women banished her, and she has troubles with the movement leaders like I do. It was a shame she didn’t embrace me from the moment I came on the scene.

Playboy: In her Playboy Interview, we asked her about you and she said, “How can you take her seriously? She is an exhibitionist, and she takes the most extreme elements of the women’s movement and tries to make the whole movement antisexual, antilife, antijoy. And neither I nor most of the women I know are that way.”

Paglia: The truth is we have similar opinions. If she had come into line with me when I came onto the scene, we could have smashed everybody.

Playboy: How about Naomi Wolf?

Paglia: Daddy’s little girl? Her Rolodex feminism?

Playboy: Rolodex feminism?

Paglia: She always says to [pantomiming] get a Rolodex and keep the names of all the women we know and we’ll be able to call them up and get a job and we’ll have women power. [Cringing] She is so naive. I can’t stand her. She’s hopeless.

Playboy: Don’t you acknowledge the existence of what Wolf describes in her book The Beauty Myth: a culture manipulated by Madison Avenue that trains women to associate their self-worth with their looks?

Paglia: That’s hilarious. Wolf says we shouldn’t succumb to all this bullshit, but she spends four hours having makeup applied before her TV appearances andI’ve heardcan’t pass a window without looking at herself. I mean, look at her hair! It is the only thing that gave her cachet when she came onto the scene. Her book was one of many tired feminist books. What distinguished her was her hair; she owes everything to that hair. But then she cut it off. She’s trying to find a more serious persona. She’s looking for a hairstyle. It’s horrible. It’s embarrassing.

Playboy: How about Gloria Steinem?

Paglia: She is so deluded that she genuinely believes she speaks for all women. She’s a victim of her own success. I liked the early Steinem. There was once a survey conducted for Time about who would make a good candidate for the first female president, and I wrote in Gloria Steinem. But now? Gloria Steinem is dissing men and dissing fashion and she’s out having her hair streaked at Kenneth’s. She became a socialite with a coterie. A lot of middle-aged white ladies still love her, but the media have been negligent regarding her.

Playboy: Susan Faludi?

Paglia: At least Faludi is smart and a real journalist. I call her the Mary Tyler Moore of feminism like, “Gee, Mr. Grant.” In some photos, with her knees pulled up, sitting there coyly, she looks like a little girl or a puppy. She says a solution for women is for men to do more at home and help out. But she has no idea. The big problem with them allthe FaludiWolfSteinem feministsis that they blame men. We have to get past the male-bashing. All the work a man does at home isn’t going to solve the problem. Nature, not men, is compelling women to have babies.

Playboy: Do you acknowledge the backlash Faludi described in her book?

Paglia: There was no backlash. It’s a complete myth. On the contrary, the period Faludi is writing about, through the Eighties, was a great time for women. We made enormous gains, financially and otherwise. Women rose in the corporate and political realms like never before.

Playboy: But because of those gains, Faludi postulates, there was a movement to put women back in their place.

Paglia: There was a backlash, perhaps, but it was to the Sixties, not to feminism. After the Sixties there was a collapse in almost everything we believed in. It culminated in the biological disaster of AIDSan answer to every one of us who preached free love.

Playboy: That’s ridiculous. People aren’t responsible for random acts of naturein this case, the unleashing of a virus.

Paglia: AIDS is a price paid for sins committed in the Sixties, and by gay men who took free love to extremes throughout the Seventies and had unrestrained, decadent, pagan sex. I support paganism in all its forms, but a price must be paid. I believed in free love, too, but we were wrong. It wasn’t the Pope who was the problem. It wasn’t the struggle with old-fashioned moral codes that was the problem. It was nature. Nature said, “Guess what? If you’re going to be that promiscuous, I will off you.”

Playboy: But you are moralizing about something that’s random. No one could have predicted the virus.

Paglia: I believe that nature rewards things that are in its best interest and punishes things that are not. Homosexual promiscuity is not in nature’s best interest. Certainly not anal sex. Nature wants us to procreate.

Playboy: That’s a dangerous attitude, the same message we hear from fundamentalists who say that gay men are responsible for AIDS and that their sexual practices are immoral.

Paglia: It isn’t about morality. It’s about nature. In fact, it’s not gay men who are ultimately responsible. It’s all of us who set up a series of things that allowed the change of behavior for which gay men paid the price. Gay men put into full effect the ideas created for heterosexuals.

The Sixties went too far and it collapsed. It all unraveled in the Seventies. AIDS, appearing in the early Eighties, was the period at the end of the sentence. AIDS forced most people to wake up to the fact that the sexual revolution had failed. But I realized it earlier. By the mid-Seventies, something had gone wildly wrong. Feminism and the radical left alienated as many people as possible. Everyone splintered. It has resulted in the Republican sweep, which I had been warning about for years. This radical move to the right is the result, and it was caused by the progressives.

Playboy: How?

Paglia: These groups alienated everyone they could. The radical gay groups, for instance, screaming at people, storming into St. Patrick’s Cathedral, caused a backlash in certain communities that has caused even more homophobia. They managed to bring together people who have never spoken before. How stupid! Where is the thinking behind it?

Playboy: Come on. Most homophobia has nothing to do with radical groups.

Paglia: There are times when gay men are indeed persecuted. There are isolated incidents of gay-bashing on the streets, but they are rare. My point is that you cannot force social change at a speed that it cannot go. Social change is evolutionary, not revolutionary. Deep social change takes time. And slowly the culture is changing. The MTV generation is far more tolerant, and that tolerance is growing.

Playboy: Should gays be able to serve in the military?

Paglia: Sure. The military has no right to tell you what you can or cannot do when you are out of uniform. The fact is, there should be no sexual anything when you’re in uniform. But out of uniform, you can do whatever you wantparade for gay rights, anything. You should be able to go to a gay bar and to have sex in the street, as far as I’m concerned.

Playboy: Were you optimistic when Clinton was elected?

Paglia: Of course. We finally had a great opportunity. It was a chance to rethink everything that had failed as a result of the shoddy thinking in the Sixties and to try again with a new, reasoned approach. The Clinton administration should have been a think tank for the nationhe himself should have led the debate, reaffirming all Sixties ideals but correcting them where they had become excessive. It’s a tragedy that he didn’t. Instead of surrounding himself with progressive intellectuals, he surrounded himself with Eighties yuppieslike George Stephanopoulos, whom I loathe with a passion. I wish Clinton would fire everyone around him. I want a Saturday night massacre. I hate them all. But Clinton has totally lost the persona of leadership. It’s pathetic. He’s looking like a salesman.

Playboy: How did you feel about President Clinton’s firing of Joycelyn Elders?

Paglia: It was about time.

Playboy: It’s surprising that you don’t support Elders for her progressive views. Isn’t she the kind of free-speaking Sixties person you miss?

Paglia: Clinton is in trouble and she opens her mouth about masturbation. Can’t she control herself? She was in the wrong job. In some ways she’s like meshe says what she thinks. But then you shouldn’t be part of politics. I would like Joycelyn Elders to be in a position to speak her mind and not worry about political consequences. You cannot have a nondiplomatic figure in a political appointment.

Playboy: What is your opinion of Newt Gingrich, Phil Gramm and other Republican leaders?

Paglia: I think they’re going to be a lot harder to fight. They are men of ideas. I don’t demonize them, but I’m uneasy about them because there is no room for art in the world they would createno room for art or free expression.

Playboy: Then what’s the solution for the left in American politics?

Paglia: The Democratic Party has to return to its populist base, to rediscover the party of FDR, the one that appealed to my grandfather and the factory workers and others. To do this, there must be a period of self-criticism. We must face this head-on or continue to be governed by the Republicans. We must examine how we set up the rise of Republicans on campuses, where the dissent should be coming from. It is explained by the lack of energy and ideas from the other side. As a result, campuses are the most depressing places, devoid of passion.

Playboy: Where else has the left failed?

Paglia: On abortion. The people who are pro-abortionI hate the cowardly euphemism of pro-choicemust face what they are opposing. The left constantly identifies the pro-life advocates as misogynists and fanatics, but that doesn’t represent most of those people. They are deeply religious and they truly believe that taking a life is wrong. If the left were to show respect for that position and acknowledge the moral conundrum of unwanted pregnancy, the opposition to abortion would lessen. We must acknowledge that people should be a little troubled by abortion. Not to acknowledge that this is a difficult decision is wrong. The procedure snuffs out a potential personality.

Playboy: But much of the fanaticism of the oppositionfanaticism that you discountleaves no room for a woman to make the decision for herself.

Paglia: You have a stronger case if you give due respect to the other side. An abortion should be something that is wrestled with. And herein is the point. Though most people agree that abortion should be an option, there is something attractive about the deeply moral position of those against abortion, particularly when the other side is in a spiritual vacuum. There is nothing in kids’ education anymore that tells them to revere anything. Traditional religions, with all their moral codes, are becoming increasingly attractive in light of the alternatives: the Prozac nation, or heroin, which has come back with a vengeance.

Playboy: Where do you stand on the legalization of drugs?

Paglia: How dare we have a culture that bans drugs, that says that heroin and marijuana are illegal, while we dope kids with Ritalin? “Kids don’t sit still in a classroom? Attention-deficit disorder!” Millions of kids are being maimed right now on Ritalin. I would have been given Ritalin. And there would have been no Sexual Personae, no nothing. We are castrating a whole generation of kids. Prozac is legal, why not marijuana? I think drugs should be controlled like alcohol. I have demonstrated how the international drug cartels have destroyed our urban youth, white and black. Why should they work in the factories when they can earn $10,000 as drug runners? Most important, laws do not stop anyone from using drugs. Deprive them of one drug and they will get a spray can and inhale and kill themselves that way. It’s not that I think drugs are good. For the most part, drugs destroy. But who cares? So what? That’s a choice people make. The government has no right stopping that choice. And the government is incapable of grasping the true problemthat kids have nothing. So they flounder or, in some cases, follow the only spirituality offered to themrepresented by the right, where the energy is.

Playboy: Aren’t kids focusing much of their energy on things other than religion, for instance, on new technology and the Internet? Is that good or bad?

Paglia: The only problem I have with computers and television is that when all cultures on earth reach the stage we are at it will lead to a kind of homogenization. Also, the young are so adept with computers, which is fine. But whereas music was for everyone, a class issue is emerging with technology. No doubt the white middle-class kids have access to computers in ways that black kids don’t. Charles Murray is right about one thing: We are moving toward a two-tier society. It’s very dangerous. We are producing an underclass and this technology will further isolate them.

Playboy: What do you think of Murray’s book The Bell Curve?

Paglia: If you want to see a good example of the folly of leftist censorship, here it is. This same issuethat blacks are mentally inferiorwas circulated by William Shockley some years ago. Shockley and Arthur Jensen were shouted down, harassed and ultimately silenced. Consequently, this entire issue of genetic differences between the races was driven underground. Neutral or moderate or even liberal investigators were driven out of the field. Twenty-five years later it reemerges, but now it is exclusively attached to a conservative agenda. The problem I have with the book’s conclusion is that it has no resemblance whatsoever to my experience as an academic. In the real world, very smart people fail and mediocre people rise. Part of what makes people fail or succeed are skills that have nothing to do with IQ. Also, the idea that intelligence can be gauged by an IQ test is erroneous. The failure of this book to address different definitions of intelligence is appalling. Also, for this book to appear at this moment is terrible. It’s the last thing we needsomething that further divides us. But once again, the left cannot deal with it.

Playboy: The entire culture seems to be turning against intelligence and is now celebrating dim-wittedness. Look at the popularity of movies such as Forrest Gump and Dumb and Dumber. Why is stupidity now so cool?

Paglia: As we have moved into a new culture based on computer technology, we have elevated what used to be called nerds and geeks to the forefront. These are the most important people. People who best understand computer technology are simpletonsat least they’re socially inept. I think this is a rebellion against the advanced skills that are required. There is a history of this. Candide is about a simple and naive person who does not fully understand the complex world. Chauncey Gardiner, in Being There, was another. So the movies are symptomatic of the quest for truth, a turn away from false complexity.

Playboy: What are the trends in the porn movie industry symptomatic of?

Paglia: Feminist PC bullshit has taken over the industry so the videos, except for the gay male ones, are all boring. There has been a horrible decline in quality. There is just a bunch of professional porn actresses simulating orgasm. The hot movies are from the Russ Meyer period, the late Sixties and early Seventies. I loved that period. And Debbie Does Dallas. Good and lewd. I mean, Deep Throat was a revelation.

Playboy: How so?

Paglia: Good fellatio is an art form. I know this from gay men; one of them said that they should have federal funding for the development of fellatio skillsit should be underwritten. Well, when I was growing up, good middle-class white girls never discussed it. We’d never even heard of it. Women went with their boyfriends to see Deep Throat, and their mouths were hanging open. No one could believe it. Now, after 20 years, we’ve seen so many demonstrations of it that it has become a part of the culture. I think it’s a very good skill.

Playboy: Let’s move to mainstream movies. What do you have against Meryl Streep?

Paglia: I loathe Meryl Streep. She was good in Silkwood, but she began to take herself very seriously. I’m reacting to the horrendous overpraise she has received. She is a calculated actress, a victim of her own WASP culture. I find her totally unconvincing. She has no passion. She has no deep elemental vibration. Jodie Foster is overpraised, too. I thought she was good in Silence of the Lambs and The Accused, but she’s getting on my nerves.

Playboy: Who sends you?

Paglia: The great actresses in film are Jeanne Moreau, Elizabeth Taylor. I love an actress as sensual as Raquel Welch. She and Liz Taylor and that type of woman are the great queens of Hollywood. They have the lush sexuality that I admire, as opposed to the WASPy, desexualized Meryl. I love Jessica Walter. Even Vanessa Redgrave and Jane Fonda are better than Meryl Streep. I love Catherine Deneuve.

Playboy: Meg Ryan is another actress who has incurred your wrath.

Paglia: I loathe Meg Ryan. Loathe her. Naomi Wolf’s culture deserves Meg Ryan. She is Sandra Dee reborn but without Sandra Dee’s talent for comedy. I read in an interview that Meg Ryan doesn’t speak to her mother. So this is a woman who has all kinds of untapped dark stuff that she could draw on, but she’s not doing it. She is so superficial. She used to be on As the World Turns. I hated her on that and she has been doing the same goddamned act since then. The woman has two facial expressions, OK? The fact that she is one of the great actresses of our culture right now is a testament to our poverty, to our sexual poverty. She is so sexless. Julia Roberts is another one who drives me crazy.

Playboy: What about Cindy Crawford?

Paglia: I like her very much. I saw her in person once, and I thought she was more beautiful than in her pictures. She has a wonderful manner and is so misty and charismatic.

Playboy: How about male stars? How do you explain the popularity of Arnold Schwarzenegger?

Paglia: I like him and find him humorous. He has a wonderful sense of comedy; I love the way he satirizes himself. Actresses always complain that they don’t get the salaries that male stars like Schwarzenegger get. Excuse me, but when you pull in the box office they do, you’ll get their salaries. It’s interesting that the stars who pull in the greatest salaries are those who have retained the masculine glamour. Schwarzenegger doesn’t mind portraying a pregnant man because he is so confident in his masculinity he can play with his image.

Playboy: What about Woody Allen?

Paglia: I love him. He’s one of the great commentators on sexual mores of our time. I think he was totally shafted when the media turned against him for his thing with Soon-Yi Previn. The child-abuse charges were baseless. There is an incestuous tinge to his relationship with Soon-Yi, but the only thing I would hold against him is that he didn’t tell Mia. If he was having an affair, he had an obligation to his lover. I don’t care that it was Mia’s adopted daughter. Big deal.

Playboy: But you admit that it appears to be incestuous?

Paglia: It has an incestuous tinge, OK? It is not incest legally. And Soon-Yi is not a baby. She is over the age of consent. But I hate double-dealing. I’m very honest. I think two-timing is wrong.

Playboy: You were once Madonna’s most serious fan.

Paglia: I remain a fan of Madonna. She is a brilliantly talented woman who is at a low point right now. I’m hoping that she can recover. She maymany great stars went through a period of being box-office poison and then came back. I don’t know if she will, though, because I think she cuts herself off from anyone interestinglook at Sandra Bernhard and me. She won’t have anything to do with two of the smartest women in the world.

Playboy: How does that affect whether or not she’ll be able to make a comeback?

Paglia: She needs people to inspire her intelligence. Instead, she hangs out with disco trash. Too bad. I think we would get along. But now I know too much about her. I’ve heard too much about her from Sandra and her friends. I heard she never just sits around and talks. She always has to be princess of the room. She comes in with an entourage. Sandra still has friends from high school; she’s still friends with a manicurist she met once. Madonna, on the other hand, drops people. That’s weird because Italians are usually loyal. My lover, Alison, loves Madonna. Our only fights are about Madonna, because I’m in a state of disillusion. I like her new album. I call it Prozac musicshe’s very depressed. Anyway, people have suggested that I just wanted to sleep with her. That’s ridiculous.

Playboy: Did you at one point?

Paglia: That’s not my attitude toward great stars. I am reverential to great stars. I don’t want sexual congress with them. The writer in me reveres the artist in them.

Playboy: Do you have a favorite television show?

Paglia:Monday Night Football. I love it. Any woman who wants to understand what’s going on in the workplace should study football. It’s all there. I never miss The Young and the Restless. I love reruns.

Playboy: Do real men like baseball or football?

Paglia: Baseball is an intellectual game, but the center of the culture is football. A lot of Jewish men don’t get it, but most mennot men of the cultural elite or the literatilove football. Why? Because it’s about the masculine. We are in this industrial-capitalist period, very safe, at least, relatively safe. We think we can do without the masculine. But we respond to it. Even straight men who are looking at sports are responding. It’s not sexual, but it is sensuous. I think there is a sensuous appreciation of beautiful bodies and sports. No one gives a fuck about women’s group sportsit embarrasses me to see women’s basketball. But men bonding on teams is the essence of human history.

Playboy: Can you give us an overview of the state of women’s magazines?

Paglia: They are being overrun by PC types and men. They are in a state of chaos and transition right now. I have a nice association with Allure, which is one of the only non-PC magazines. But I love fashion magazines. I think they’re works of art for the masses. They in no way cause anorexia, OK? Nor do they cause low self-esteem in the women who look at them. Just the opposite. And for $4.95 you can get all that fantasy and beauty.

It’s interesting that the world of fashion, frivolous as it may be to some people, is where a lot of high-art energy now is. High art is in the doldrums. The painting world is for shit right now. The real artistic energy is only in the fashion world.

Playboy: How about music?

Paglia: I love Sixties music. John Lennon. The Beatles. The Stones. The Who. Cream. Hendrix. Jefferson Airplane. I came to love Led Zeppelin. Van Halen. I like the Pretenders.

Playboy: Are you interested in any of the new stuff?

Paglia: I listen to anything big. I try to monitor substantial achievements.

Playboy: So it’s more about research than pleasure?

Paglia: Well, no. But there’s such a turnover now that there’s no point running after every band that comes along that doesn’t last more than an album or two. I’m looking for rock to advance as an art form. I loved the double album from Guns n’ Roses, but that was simply a continuation of my favorite Rolling Stones album, Exile on Main Street. I like Pearl Jam. I like Metallica. I thought Metallica’s performance at Woodstock was wonderful.

Playboy: What about Kurt Cobain?

Paglia: Kurt Cobain’s suicide is a good example of Generation X’s despair.

Playboy: Do you view him as more than another rock star with drug problems?

Paglia: He was a revealing symbol. He called himself passive-aggressive. There was self-pity, whining. There was a diminishment, a diminution. He was sitting there in his sweater, hunched over his guitar, looking like a little lost boy. Compare that with the great figures of my generation: Jimi Hendrix. Pete Townshend. Keith Richards. The great achievements of rockof the Sixties, in factwere done by assertion and energy. This is why I’m worried about the future.

Playboy: How about the new women rockers?

Paglia: I’m listening. I like Liz Phair, but there were these stupid women reviewers who said she’s surpassing the Stones. Dream on.

Playboy: You’ve said that bisexuality should be the universal norm. Do you still believe that?

Paglia: It’s the cure for many problems. I don’t believe in gay versus straight. The message of the gay liberation movement should have been freedom of sexuality, not antagonism toward sexuality other than gay sex. Most people are going to want to be straight, this is true, because most people breed, and nature wants us to breed. However, I believe in the liberation of all avenues of pleasure, and I want all straight people to have their options open without it implicating them. The impulses are there if they aren’t repressed, so people should choose to live without those labels.

Playboy: Have you examined why some heterosexual men focus on breasts and others on asses?

Paglia: Yes. It’s very interesting. There’s no doubt in my mind that Fifties eroticism for men in America was based on the bosom. That’s where Hugh Hefner came in. Hefner has never gotten the credit he deservesnot merely for his influence on the culture’s view of sex but for creating a whole motif, a style for men that was a departure from the World War One rough-and-ready typethe kind in the action magazines. The style he created wasn’t just about women, it was about connoisseurship. He said it’s possible to be a new kind of man, a European-style man interested in fine stereo equipment, good wine, sophisticated conversation and progressive ideas. Certainly Playboy emerged at a time when the bosom was the locus at eroticism in America. I remember being puzzled when friends went to Italy and got pinched on the butt by men. In Italy, there is a huge emphasis on the butt. Women with large buttocks are pursued on the streets in Italy. Throughout the Sixties, women in England and America had no butts. With the Twiggy look, big breasts were out. They were unfashionable. The exercise boom may have brought more attention to the butt. Women have become conscious of developing it. Cheryl Tiegs was the first exercise model. The butt started to be more appreciated here after that. It also could be multicultural, because as more black women and Hispanic women have come into imagery in the past 20 years, the butt has become more important. There is an appreciation of good asses in the Hispanic and black cultures. In Mediterranean cultures large buttocks are a sign of fertility. At any rate, this has been an important part of my evolution as an erotic thinker. I now have tremendous appreciation of butts. I’m very aware of them and I’m responsive to themequally with breasts.

Playboy: Theories such as thisdescribed in your books and in your other writingscontinue to receive criticism from all circles, including feminists, gays, lesbians and liberals. Do you set out to incite?

Paglia: I’m afraid it’s unavoidable. There never was a time when I did not incite.

Playboy: From where did your incendiary personality emerge?

Paglia: Growing up in my family in the Fifties. I was always trying to escape from the Fifties. The decade was a horror.

Playboy: Someone once said that you talk fast because your father wouldn’t let you speak. Is that true?

Paglia: Actually, I was silent as a child. But it’s true that my father was very opinionated, and he trained me in my earliest years to be an individual thinker. Italian culture is like Chinese culture. There is respect for elders. You never raise your voice to elders. There are no explosions. My father was totally in control. I had no WalkmanI wish I had. They’re wonderful. Kids now put on Walkmans when they’re in the car with their parents so they don’t have to hear them talking to each other. I think there would have been much less stress. I certainly did become a maniacal fast talker.

Playboy: Did you always know you were a lesbian?

Paglia: I had crushes on womenactually I loved charismatic, extreme people, women or men. By high school I was saying I must be a lesbian, because if you are attracted to women, you’re a lesbian. I was also attracted to men, but I didn’t get along with men.

Playboy: Did you have sexual experiences with both?

Paglia: There weren’t opportunities with women. In Girl Scout camp or something all the girls were fooling around. But there was no chance; I never even heard the word lesbian. Even in college, I was looking for women but dating men.

Playboy: Was your mother at homeliving the feminine mystique?

Paglia: When I was three she began working as a bank teller. Even before that she worked at homesewing wedding dresses.

Playboy: What was your father like?

Paglia: A firstborn daughter, it’s been proven, is very achieving because her father projects to her his ambition for a son. From early on, my father talked to me like an adult. One of the earliest things he did was teach me the Latin names of the parts of the body. He was very analytic. We had no money, but intellectual curiosity was encouraged, and my parents constantly talked with each other. This develops the brain. I remember listening and thinking, listening to voices talking, talking, talking.

Playboy: Because they value intellectual discussion, are they proud of you?

Paglia: I think so. My father died of cancer but lived long enough to see me famous, though not long enough to read my book fully. If he were alive I wouldn’t be quite so outrageous, speaking about my sex life, for instance. I don’t believe in embarrassing my family. My sister told my mother, “Look, Ma, just think how Mick Jagger’s mother must have felt.” My mother will say to me, “Try to be nice, all right?” Or she’ll say, “Can’t you tone it down?”just like Madonna’s father says to her in Truth or Dare. I think my mother is mollified because the priests, of all people, congratulate her.

Playboy: How do you feel when critics go beyond criticizing the work and get personal?

Paglia: That’s inevitable. Even if people don’t agree with me, however, I think intellectuals should be fascinated by my rise, what it reveals about the time. My critics are irrelevant, though. It tells how much I’m getting to them by how vitriolic they are. They refuse to deal with the ideas. But reviews don’t reflect anything; the books are selling. A friend told me, “The attacks make you.”

Playboy: You criticized your former idol, Susan Sontag, for becoming too mainstream and losing her outsider’s perspective. Could that happen to you?

Paglia: I take measures to avoid that. I saw what happened to Germaine Greer and Sontag. Here I am, still at the University of the Arts, still at the same office that I share with two other people, with a $34,000 salary. And I keep my speaking fee low$2,000.

Playboy: But the book advances must be high by now.

Paglia: The biggest lie in the world is that I am in this for money. Now I don’t have to worry about the unemployment line. But there are eight phone lines. It becomes a hassle. It’s frustrating, too, because there’s only so much you can do. You can criticize academe, but there is tenure and these snobs are locked in. I am popular with certain people, but I’m still blocked out of the establishment. I hate that incestuous world. It makes me sick. It’s impossible for anything truly original to get done. Thinking is not allowed. It’s all PC. It is so horrible because it is a fossilized, parasitic version of Sixties philosophy.

Playboy: Then why don’t you get out? You have a much larger popular audience anyway.

Paglia: You can’t abandon academe. It’s important and it must be fought. We want to bring the real world into academe, to make the academe relevant again. We need people who are bridging those two worlds.

Playboy: What is it like to finally have a relationship? You once described how new relationships quickly become boring, descending into, “You make love and it’s, ‘How do you want your eggs?’” You claimed to hate that. Well?

Paglia: I lost a big part of my act when I couldn’t complain about my sex life anymore. It’s terrible [laughs]. We’ve been together a year and a half. We’re perfect for each other.

Playboy: Where did you meet Alison?

Paglia: She came to a lecture. She sent me an application.

Playboy: For a job?

Paglia: I was used to getting applications. Everyone knew that I was looking. Men and women were sending me applications. And she got it right. People tried all kinds of things, and nothing ever convinced me. She sent me her résumé, her picture and artwork. I knew immediately. One of her works was a photomontage of a woman in black panties in a fashion magazine that she put with advertisements of pancakes and syrup. It was absolutely right. And then she sent me a formal letter and a picture of herself in a very short skirt. It was bold. I checked her résumé; I don’t want any psychopaths, thank you. She was a teacher. She had a job. Still, I was cautious. I called her voice mail and listened to how she sounded. I thought, all right. Then we met. By the second date, that was it. I didn’t think it was possible, because I’m 47.

Playboy: How does she like her eggs?

Paglia: In fact, she’s very into cooking. She watches cooking shows on TV. She is on a low-fat diet, though, and doesn’t make eggs.

Playboy: What’s next in the battle of the sexes in an era of Lorena Bobbitt? What’s the significance of that case?

Paglia: A woman cutting off a man’s penis is the ultimate castration for 5,000 years of human history. Someone finally did it, right? It was revolutionary. But I abhor the fact that she struck a sleeping enemy. It’s cowardly to attack your enemy while he’s sleeping. If she had attacked him while he was awake, or stabbed him in the chest with a knife while they were arguing, that’s different.

Playboy: Do you think she should have been acquitted?

Paglia: I reject that she was a victim. They had an S&M relationshiplike the one O.J. and Nicole Simpson had. The claim that she feared for her life was ridiculous. She was revenging herself on him. I love how she threw his severed penis out the car window. Then she told the police where it was, and they found it. I love that. But she should not have been acquitted. She was guilty. It was a crime of passion.

Anyway, this case brought to the forefront the fact that men are constantly forced to deal with their sexuality. The issue for a woman is menstruation, when her blood pours forth. But generally women can be removed from their own sexualitythey never have to think about it or confront it like men do. Every time men pee, it’s right there. They have to worry about it constantly. It’s a part of their bodies that they are not in control of. It can be embarrassing. In gym class or wherever, they can suddenly be humiliated, embarrassed. It defines so much about men. Because of the nature of the penis, men have performance anxiety, whereas no woman ever has to prove herself in this way. So men’s egos are totally involved in performance, in doing, achieving. An erection is a kind of achievement. So is peeing. As I’ve said, a boy has to learn to aim in order to no longer be infantile. So it’s an accomplishment. The male orgasm is short-lived and transientand that’s the irony of men’s sexuality. It’s ironic that feminism looks at the penis as power and violence when in fact it is very weak.

Every time a man approaches a woman, he is overcome with anxiety because he is approaching the place where he was born. There is a subliminal memory of that and there is always the nightmare that he can be shot down. All of a sudden, whoosh, and like Alice in Wonderland, you are shot through the looking glass. Every time a man puts his penis in a woman, he is gambling that he is going to get it back again. And in a sense, he loses that gamble each time. It goes in, he is very powerful, and then it’s over and he is no longer so powerful.

This highlights where feminists have erred. It took most of my life to realize that men are not tyrants or egomaniacs. I had an epiphany in a shopping mall recently that put it all in perspective.

I was having a piece of pizza and I saw all these teenage boys running around in the mall. They were wild. I looked at them and saw this desperation. When I was their age I hated those kinds of boys because they were so obnoxious. They are so involved in their status, gaining it, afraid of losing it. I’m glad I don’t have to be that age again.

So they sat down near me and they didn’t notice me. I didn’t exist on their radar map. I was thinking, This is great. I was watching.

They were full of energy and life. And I suddenly realized, My God, the reason they are so loud, the reason they are so uncontrolled, the reason I hated them at that age is that they bond with each other against women. It was the first time they were able to be away from the control of a womantheir mothers. They were on their own and for this period they’re very dangerous. Women have to watch out when they go to fraternity parties, because the men are all trying to up their status among one another and there is all this testosterone.

And then some girl will snag them.

And that’s it. It’s over for them. They get married and they’re under the control of their wives forever. You hear these women all the time, on, like, Ricki Lake, saying, “You know, I have two children, but actually I have three children” about the husband, and it’s true: The husband becomes a child again. Even when men are doing their share, taking out the garbage, doing the mopping, whatever, women are still running the household. They are in control and the men become subordinate again. So that’s what the feminists are so worried about? Men who are subordinated by their mothers and then by their wives? Men are looking for maternal solace in women, and that’s the nature of heterosexuality. Now you tell me, who really has all the power?